Sunday, March 16, 2014

Study of "And" - Week 3 Discussion Questions


Study of And: The Gathered and Scattered Church
Week 3: Chapter 4

Reading assignments for March 16
In Chapter 4, read pp 93-96; p. 101 – 108; p. 114; bottom of p. 115 – middle of p. 118.   Specifically
“The New Opportunity of Spiritual Formation” - from bottom of pg 93 to the top of pg 96.
The sections Spiritual Formation Framework – middle of pg 101 to p. 108
Creating a Nonconsumer Process of Apprenticeship
Observance
Jesus on Observance
Hearing your Story
Hearing Their Story
Page 114 (starting with “Whereas a time of observance purifies motives…”).
Bottom of Page 115 to middle of pg 118, Section on Participation

Skip Chapter 5.


Chapter 4: Spiritual Formation for Missional Churches
The authors assert that the way to change people from a ‘consumer’ mentality to a ‘disciple’ mentality is through spiritual formation.  The goal of spiritual formation is for people to become like Jesus.

Quote
“By studying how Jesus formed his friends, spiritual formation can become more than an isolated, extractional drudgery that someone is forced to add to an already overburdened life.”  p. 95

The Authors’ process for Spiritual Formation
The authors present a four-part process for spiritual formation, modeled on how Jesus developed his disciples to be committed to his cause.  These steps are
1. Observance (Telling our story, Hearing their story)
2. Preparation (active spiritual formation)
3. Participation (real life practice)
4. Partnership (leadership and ownership)


Quote about ‘observance’
 “Any volunteer-led movement – whether it’s the military, a local initiative, a school board, a missions project, a monastic community, or a church – works best when people are given time to be inspired by what they see and then have the opportunity to participate when asked to be involved…. This is what observance is all about.” p. 103

Quote about telling your story
“[The first key aspect of any observance experience is that] there must be a time for them to hear your story and the story of the church…. Every story, if told honestly, reveals values, dreams, plans, and prejudices and gives people a more realistic idea of what life would be like if they were to jump into our mission.  Hearing your story is critical because it moves a nebulous, general church expectation to a narrative that they can find themselves in…. Be yourself, tell your story, and passionately say what your heart feels; and if people are sniffing the same air, you will find some fellow kingdom sojourners.” p. 106 – 107

Question 1.  What are your church’s values, dreams, plans, and prejudices?

Quote about Hearing their story
“[The second key aspect of any observance experience is] to hear their story.  As mentioned above, every person is a unique context of values, dreams, plans, hang-ups, hurts, and expectations.  Every person has some incredible gifts that must be used and resources that must be shared, but also great brokenness and pain that, if not understood, will eventually hurt others and paralyze missional community.” p. 108

Question 2. What conditions need to exist in order to make a person who is new in a group feel safe in sharing his/her values, dreams, plans, hurts, gifts, and pain?


Quote about Preparation
“Whereas a time of observance purifies motives, surfaces personal issues, clarifies values, and calls people to something bigger, preparation pushes people into an active posture that will connect them with real needs and real people so that their hearts can be reformed after the heart of God.”
“In [the authors’ church] we’ve worked hard to find ways to give people the time to try God’s ways, [combining] spiritual formation practices of Scripture meditation, thoughtful reflection, and prayer with missional habits.  Each day they have to dive in with God, but each week provides some experiences that flesh out what they are processing.  One week we have them simply throw a party.  Another week, they all find things they don’t need in their home, sell them on Craigslist, pool the money, and give to people in need.  Another week, we simply have them cross the road to connect with a neighbor they’ve always seen but not related with, walking around the block to meet someone whose head they’ve only seen while mowing the yard on the other side of the fence.  Yet another week, we have them go to a public place where they can watch people, and we ask them to imagine the struggles people may be living with.  Then we just ask them to pray for the faces they’re looking at.”          P. 114

Question 3.  List some activities that would make you connect with “real needs and real people.”